| Sometimes picking up a girl may seem to be   embarrassing, difficult and impossible especially if you are doing it for the   first time. For most men it is not easy to approach a girl. So is it that   hard to pick up a girl? | 
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     | I   think if you are confident, skillful, articulate, have sufficient courage,   and are armed with the right techniques then it is not that difficult to   approach or pick up a girl. | 
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     | There   are several things you need to take into consideration. Be positive: | 
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     | Women   do not like men who are pessimists and have a negative approach to life.   Actually nobody like people like that. Hence, it is necessary to have a   positive attitude and show it when it comes to picking up a girl. | 
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     | Smile: | 
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     | "A   smile increases your face value", and surprisingly it costs nothing.   Therefore, especially while approaching any girl, smile constantly. | 
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     | Utilize   What You Have: Most men dwell on what they don't possess. They feel that they   don't have the charm and seductive attraction some guys have. Sometimes they   regret that they don't have a nice body. | 
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     | But   haven't you seen many men who are good looking but don't have any girl. Be   confident and try to capitalize on the assets that you have! Make Her Laugh:   Making your woman laugh will do the trick. Laughter attracts women easily and   in less time. If you are successful in making her laugh a lot, you have   already won the battle. | 
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     | Don't   Fear Rejection: | 
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     | Most   men remain unsuccessful in the task of picking up a girl because they fear   rejection. The fear of rejection is the main cause behind the failure. Take   every rejection as the next step to success and learn from your mistakes. | 
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     | Every   time you get rejected, you are moving one level up, because once you become   comfortable with girls saying no, your fear of rejection will be gone. So   instead of getting hurt, be confident after every rejection. Remember, the   guys who get rejected the most are the ones who leave with the most numbers! | 
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     | Be   A Good Listener: It always pays to be a good listener. Observe the things she   is saying as well as your surroundings. Stop worrying about what to say next   and focus your attention on listening. | 
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     | During   the conversation, always make a direct eye contact with her. Believe me she   will give you leads about what she would like to talk about, in essence,   telling you want to say next. | 
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     | Increase   A Women's Interest: | 
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     | If   a woman is interested in carrying on a conversation with you or meeting with   you, you have actually won half the battle. | 
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     | You   must concentrate on indulging in a conversation she would be interested in.   Never fake it. Try to speak about a general topic, a situation or try to   listen to her opinions on something really interesting. | 
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     | Gain   Respect: Remember that a woman would never like to sleep with a man she does   not respect. It is necessary to gain respect by showing respect to a woman   and making her realize that you genuinely like her company. Get Her Phone   Number: Getting the phone number or contact details of a girl is important   when it comes to picking her up. Now this is a difficult and time-consuming   task. You must work hard in order to be successful in your goal. | 
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     | Use   Good Pick Up Lines: | 
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     | When   picking up a girl, you can never go wrong with a great pick up line. The best   way to start a conversation with a woman is to say "hi". This is   the best opening line. | 
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     | Now,   once she responds, try to proceed further. For example, if you are at a music   concert, a theater or a sports arena. You can continue the conversation by   saying | 
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     | Now,   if a woman is near you, you need to try out the famous 'goodbye   introduction'. You can start with "Hi, I am just leaving. But before I   do, I would like to introduce myself to the most wonderful woman   around". And then see the result. | 
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     | Perhaps   it could become one of the best pick up lines. There are bright chances that   she would show some interest (that otherwise was not possible) and you will   get introduced to each other. Before leaving you can ask, "Nice talking   to you. I'd like to talk to you again, is there a number I can reach you   at?" | 
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     | Believe   me guys this always works and brings much better results. There is hardly any   girl that would say "no", because you are giving her a chance and   just asking her number to reach at. So use this technique to pick up any girl   of your choice, and see the result. | 
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     | Why?   Because here her left-brain starts working and she would be under some   hypnotic mode where she can't afford to say "no" because that will   mean there is not a number that she can be reached at. | 
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     | Moreover,   it also makes you more original than every other idiot that asks for her   number directly. | 
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     | No   doubt, the question how to pick up a girl seems to be difficult and it really   is. However, you can simplify it by utilizing the powers you have, and   following the tips and techniques mentioned above. All the best! 
 credited by Alexander Faust
 
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